Believe...!!

How can we trust some who is not worth it??

Even after knowing that people are not worth believing we believe them. We trust them, ignoring their mistakes we give them chances again and again.

How can we trust someone like this??

People are with us till the time they have benefit with it, after which the just go off, as if we never existed. People posses a dual personality, one when in front of you and one behind your back.

Why do people speak so much??

People tend to speak as if they are the lords of this world, and some one backfires at them they don't have the courtesy to listen, why do they feel offended.

Why do people stare??

People tend to stare and pass comments when they are avoided because of their own doings. Its so because they are too jobless to do anything.

Why people are so selfish?

People are too selfish nowadays, in their selfishness they even don't understand that they are hurting someones feelings, and when their feelings are hurt that act as if they are the only people on this earth who have emotions rest all are emotion less.

There are many such questions that are to answered, but the questions and answers will go on and on... if we have to stop this, such people should be taught all this.

But when it comes to understanding, it depends on these people weather they are willing to understand it or not.

We can just hope that some impact can be created on such people..!!!

SPRING.......!!!!!!

Life and Ignorance...!!!!!

Life is a said to be the most precious gift one has been given by the god...... but life when ignored by another person is the cruelest punishment ever given to someone...!!!

Ignorant treatments by another can be of many types, but the one  that I witnessed was such that one lands up in a dilemma weather the person is front is trying to ignore you, or trying to act as a duel personality person, or is not doing anything but the atmosphere around is making one feel so.

People tend to act in one way, opposite to what they really are. People act as if they are the soul person on this earth who has all the feelings and pain, and rest all are without any feelings or pain, if someone lies to them, they feel as if someone has brutally murdered them, but on the other hand if someone who supports them-respects them the time they are suffering all this, they don’t appreciate it instead they always crib about their faults and even cry over their loss that not worth crying for…!!!!!

Why do these people treat other the way they never want them to be treated?

It’s said that as a person grows he becomes more mature and more responsible, but I after witnessing such a case feel that a person, like mentioned above can become responsible only when he sees an actual life, when he gets to know the difference between what’s correct and what’s not, when he sees a real world instead of the dream world he’s living in…!!!

One needs to get to know the difference between the person they live with and ones who are worth living with…. One should get to understand the fact that one cannot get everything in life what he wants, everyone will just get whatever is in their fate nothing more than that….

Hope people realize this fact of their life and start living a life not a dream…!!!!

Destiny..!!

Few days back while sifting through my books i spotted a yellowish looking paper with very small print on it. On a closer look I realized it was a short story i had written back in year 2003. Rather it had been a product of a very boring and uneventful day at office. I had really liked it then and shared it only with some close friends.But as it is usual of me I lost the only print-out i had taken of the story and soon forgot all about it.I somehow never tried my hand at story writing again. In these days of retrospection its great to have found that story...


Here is finally the 'Destined Fate'

And after the long wait finally the time came for executing her duty once again. It was usually a simple task but the old woman clung to those few breaths with all her might, making it terribly difficult for D this time. D had always been proud of her capacities and seeing them thus challenged by a frail dying old woman made her furious. Sometime back the old woman had pushed her out and she had no choice but to succumb to the act. In hearts of their hearts both knew D was invincible but that knowledge did not deter the latter’s resistance.

D decided to let the old woman have her way for sometime. Maybe that would make her realize the inevitable destiny. Thinking thus, out she flew through the window and began witnessing the scenes of daily life. Aimlessly floating and contemplating D came to an open window which revealed a very cozy and lively room. Peeping inside the window D caught sight of a beautiful young girl lying on a sofa…probably deep asleep…The girl M was absolutely still, like death itself…how peacefully she slept. D looked at her for some time but there was no movement in M’s body. Suddenly D got a wicked idea. She quietly glided in the room and spread her frozen limbs in M’s youthful body, thus turning her into cold marble.D knew very well it was an offence for which she would surely be punished but the temptation of doing the unexpected was too much o resist. M was as motionless as before…but there was a drastic difference now….Now she was dead. Lying still as a statue she had invited death to reside in her.

After some time another young girl K barged in the room. Sitting on the edge of the sofa next to M she began chatting. Getting no response she touched M on her forehead and instantly a chill ran down her spine. Taking courage she tried in vain to locate latter’s pulse and heart beat. The sudden shock of her friend’s untimely death brought a terrible shriek from her and she began to cry hysterically.

All this hue and cry woke D up who had gone off to sleep in M’s body. As soon as D saw K she realized her mistake and was scared to see a friend weeping and wailing over what had not been ordained…what was just a whim…what was not true…M has a long life ahead. D had to leave before it was too late. Noiselessly she escaped M’s body and flew out of the open window.

Suddenly there was a movement in M’s body ..as if she was getting up from a deep sleep. She opened her eyes and saw a white faced and terribly shaken K. She put her hands on K's shoulder and tried taking her hand but the latter had already run out of the room…out of the house...out on the road. Running frantically with fear written all over her face K could hardly see a pick-up van which ran over her ending all her fears and worries forever;

On the other side D had won the battle. The old woman had finally given up. The ultimate look of defeat and surrender on her victim’s face elated D. She calmly resided in latter’s body. After her much awaited victory D had to immediately reach the road T for her next assignment. As D reached the place she saw K running madly on the middle of the road. It was not with a triumphant smile but a very heavy heart that D spread her limbs in K as the pick-up van crushed the latter’s body.

Ignorance

“If a little knowledge is dangerous, where is the man who has so much as to be out of danger?"

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Is Something Missing in Life?

Why does one always feel as if there's something is missing in his life, something is incomplete that has to be completed..When inner peace is lost a sense of missing began to grow.

One's path of Inner peace begins with a strong need to change things in life. That need is often frustrated by not knowing how to achieve that change. 

It's as if something is needed to complete them. In searching many attempt to "find themselves" by travelling, studying, changing jobs or even regularly alternating between relationships to find that missing something. At best they may fill that incompleteness, only to realise they have a short-term compromise when the missing feeling returns.

From early childhood our lives are spent erecting barriers to the world that in turn develop into layers. These layers create limitations within us. Eventually through these limitations we lose sight of our real selves and we then lose touch with our Inner Peace. This creates the sense of something missing. 

You may have put these barriers up and created these layers for valid reasons but that doesn't mean they should stay. Removing the layers with Peace Inside enables you to feel safe and secure without them. Through this method you rediscover your true self. With this self-discovery awakening you will realize the layers you created have often caused the damage you originally put them up to prevent.

As society generally focuses on negativity it is easier to believe negatives than positives. Being told: "You are stupid" when you're vulnerable will create a limitation about your intelligence. Periodic reinforcement of that "truth" adds to that limitation and may trigger further limitations. Inability to accept compliments is a typical triggered limitation. This example is characteristic of why you lost touch with your Inner Peace.

Does one ever have inner peace? ... Yes: One is born with Inner Peace and lost touch with it sometime during your childhood.

Can one get his internal peace back? … YES - It starts by deciding to heal inside and change how you perceive life.

Two simple steps to reclaim your inner peace are:-

Step One - Getting to know yourself. 

You are given a 23 page questionnaire called the "Lists" that deals with all aspects of your life. Progressing with your Lists by journalising, you will understand certain behaviours and feelings. It also begins the healing process and heals aspects of you.

Completion time varies and shouldn't be rushed. Participants often describe the Lists as confronting and compulsive.

Step Two - Working with your Lists. 

Peace Inside will teach you how you can resolve issues that prevent you from being your true self. This peeling away of your layers will lead you back to your Inner Peace.

To reclaim inner peace one needs to follow the following points

A determination of "I will do whatever it takes"
A commitment to face the truth of yourself with absolute honesty
A resolve to put in quality effort
A resolution not to allow other people's words to hold you back.

The lasting benefit of the Peace Inside method is further empowered by the tools that stay with you for life. These tools are life skills that grow as you progress. They will build your inner strengths giving you control of yourself and your life.

Inner Peace is a feeling of absolute confidence, contentment and deep inner fulfilment that allows you to be free in your feelings and thoughts. It is living without insecurity, without fears, without self-doubt.

It is unlimited inner strength to be you and never having to hide yourself. You never feel inadequate no matter what situation you are in or the company you keep. Having Inner Peace affects those around you in a very positive way. Relationships have a lot less challenges. Participants all say they become closer to their children. You will no longer judge yourself. You will find yourself smiling a lot, which in turn will encourage those around you to do the same. You will feel connected and whole. You will LOVE yourself. Those around you will find it easy to love you and will be drawn to you.

You will have a Peaceful calmness inside you that is endless and feels invincible. Ultimately this is what you will achieve by taking on this path and completing this journey into yourself.

So tired of life.....

She’s so tired of this life, so tired of screaming 
She’s hoping for happiness though her heart is bleeding 

Feeling lost and forgotten like no one cares
Or wants to listen to her fears

So afraid to say how she feels inside 
There’s a whole other part of her that she hides

Afraid of what will happen if she said 
The thoughts that are running through her head 
Half the time she’d rather be dead 
That say the words that should be said

She puts of a face for all to see 
Convincing them she’s truly happy

But still she hopes all the while
For someone to see right through her smile

To see the pain behind her eyes 
And be there for her when she cries

But no matter how hard she tries 
The fear of being forgotten never dies

The Choice ......

"In the space between yes and no, there's a lifetime. It's the difference between the path you walk and the one you leave behind; it's the gap between who you thought you could be and who you really are; its the legroom for the lies you'll tell yourself in the future." 

Left Handers Day 13th August 2011

No-one has come up with a definitive reason for WHY some people are left-handed, but about 13% of the population around the world are, and it is thought to be genetic - it definitely runs in families. Researchers have recently located a gene they believe "makes it possible to have a left-handed child " so if you have that gene, one or more of your children may be left-handed, whereas without it, you will only have right-handers - sorry! The good news is, that if you are left-handed yourself, you have that gene and will pass it on through the generations!

The way the brain works is incredibly complex, but this simplified explanation will give you some understanding of where our left-hand dominance comes from. The brain is "cross-wired" so that the left hemisphere controls the right handed side of the body and vice-versa and hand dominance is connected with brain dominance on the opposite side - which is why we say that only left-handers are in their right minds!

The left hemisphere (RIGHT HAND CONTROL) controls Speech, Language, Writing, Logic, Mathematics, Science, this is the LINEAR THINKING MODE.

The right hemisphere (LEFT HAND CONTROL) controls Music, Art, Creativity, Perception, Emotions, Genius, this is the HOLISTIC THINKING MODE

I’m proud to be a left hander….!!!!!

Life is so short to realize .....

Why is it that a soldier dies happily in a battle,

Why do we run to help a friend even after bitter quarrel,

Why do we feel pleasure in teasing the one we love, 

Why are we consoled only when we are consoled by the one who made us cry....

Why do we love our loved ones, Even when they hate us !!

Because

In life,

Some defeats are sweeter than victory....!!!

Life is so short to realize this... 

Just feel it, love it, n live it..........

Is life worth moving forward...? Is life worth living...??

Sometimes i think it's all useless to live another day. After about twenty years of existence on this planet, I have realized that there's nothing else that lies ahead but mean, selfish and self centered people. There is no difference between Earth and Hell. If living another year would mean an additional one hundred years of life with good health, understanding people and in a place worth living, then I would be the first one to say "Yes, I want to live for another year." But no, it's not that way. When I wake up every morning it's the same sun, the same sky, the same trees, the same people who are also dominating others lives, no benefit of continuing to live. There are a lot of problems ahead, especially when one is at such a age. I'm so depressed and disappointed; that I don't have willingness to live my life. Might as well die so that all my worries are gone forever......

What's going on in life...........?

This world has given so much happiness, but as I am growing my pains are increasing....I wish I could be a child again...where one has no hard feelings or hatred against each other........

When one is sick of life and want it to come to an end it doesn’t come….but when one wants to live it runs away from us like sand falling from our hand... I wish I could run for my life…

One doesn’t want to commit any sins because he doesn’t know when is he going to die…..but one 

whenever one dies he wants to go in HEVEN because earth is same as HELL.....

It feels bad when people don’t know you…… it feels bad when they count in the same category of people whom tend to call names and be away….. One feels that neither his words nor his eyes can describe them……Only God knows who and what they are…..

What can one say about himself….? One feels as if there’s no one to understand them….People have gone far away from their lives because of misunderstandings….One just tries to make everyone as their friend because the people who were close to them treat them as their enemies…without knowing that one still loves and cares for them, because god says “Love them more who hates you more…… One day their hatred will change into love” ……

I believe in everyone but trust only one because people have forced me to be like that…every relation is breaking whatever promises they have made....

In such a situation one misses his past life a lot….specially his school life…were people had no grudges against each other….

One should never play with the feelings of others because one may win the game but on the other hand the risk is that them may lose that person for lifetime……

"Life is not worth living until one has someone to die for…... And life is not worth dying once one has someone to live for"

One speaks less to people who they love the most….because if one can’t understand their silence….they cannot understand their words ……

So if someone hates you, one should not mind it because it’s the law of nature “ The tree that bears the sweetest fruits gets maximum number of stone”…one should be optimistic…

“To fear being hurt is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three part dead”…!

Zindigi Na Milagi Dobara

How can one live life to the fullest?

Basic Mantra of life is to live it to the fullest according to ones own desires, wants and expectations.

But living life to the Fullest doesn't mean one waste their life, doing crazy stuff and just carelessly do their own things.. instead one needs to have a positive approach towards life, that is positive thinking.

One should make a choice according to their own needs and desires, not according to the advice of people around them.

One needs to create a balance between all the parts of their life, be it professional or personal, so as to avoid tension and stress in life.

One should have a great relation with the people around, so as to prevent hiccups in life and be away from stress and frustration.

The most important point in living a proper and happy life is to maintain proper fitness and good health.

One should expand and grow out from his comfort zone. One needs to break out his routine habits that one has for a long time and find a different and a better way to do it.

One needs to achieve inner peace and personal growth. One should live with a cool mind so that they can take right decision at the right mine.

One should be confident enough on what ever they do, because confidence is the the most important key in life. Confidence helps one in believing in themselves.

One should always have the guts to face fear, because the best way to overcome fear is by facing it. 

One should not be sad over their faults instead they should learn from their mistakes and move forward in life.

If one follows these points in their lives they can enjoy their lives , be happy and keep all the people around them happy, and this can happen only if one starts believing themselves and make people around them to believe them. It can be done only if one is happy i.e., one living his life to the fullest.

Why life is so confusing?

Life is confusing- it always will be, everyone’s life is and you have to just accept it and move on. Nothing will ever be perfect, in life we just have to do the best we can and just trust that someday it will all be worthwhile.

That question in itself is proof that the world is confusing. It is so because everyone has their own thoughts and processes, and they all think in their own way, and thus have their own opinions, and those opinions clash.

Sometimes the life is all upside down and puts one in such a situation that they need to choose an appropriate path between two correct paths.

It sometimes leaves you in such a situation that you can’t understand anything and are left with fake hopes of everything will be fine soon and later when it doesn’t happen, one feels terrible about it.

Confusion leads to a fight between ones heart and mind, when one can’t judge anything and are left thinking.

If one tries to make different peoples opinion fit together in society, it creates confusion.

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How life changes in a blink of the eye? How can it be brought back on track?

Sometimes I think how life changes within a blink of the eye? How things change in just a fraction of a second? How people change their behavior so often and don't even realize that this change is affecting the people around them? How do people become so arrogant and stubborn in life? What is the reason behind this change??

Why do people tend to act superior and over smart and make all the people around against them? Why do they create this negative impact on the people around them? Why don't they understand that they have to face the consequences of their own acts? 

When one has a negative attitude it does not just affect them, it affects everyone around them and that will take its toll on ones relationships.

Let’s face it, there are going to be those days when it seems as though nothing is going their way. The worst thing one could do is allow those things that go wrong define the person that you really are. One has the ability to keep himself from falling prey to such negative thoughts. If one doesn’t fight such a terrible feeling it can have lasting effects on their life.

People will not want to be around them and the loneliness can make it even harder to fight the negative thoughts. This can actually weaken ones immune system with such negativity. There have been studies that show how people with negative attitudes are more susceptible to getting sick compared to those with a positive outlook on life.

If you are generally a negative person you have to start making changes in your life…RIGHT AWAY. Negativity cripples and corrodes the human spirit. A negative attitude is self destructive it will only hinder the process of maintaining good relationships. You will find yourself blaming others for your problems.

The solution to this problem is just one and that one needs to change their "ATTITUDE" in life.

One should think positive to keep themselves in a good mood and it works like a charm. One can try this too, if they have a negative attitude one should just think that they have the power to change the way they feel.

One should work hard on the positive aspects of life and keep their minds focused there.

Live life in a different manner and live it in such a way that u’ll also enjoy and also the people who are around you also enjoy.

Life is a wonderful gift by god one needs to live it in such a way that it makes them happy and also the people around them. One should enjoy each and every moment of life and love the all the people who are a part of it.

The elemental fact

The elemental fact, present in our consciousness every moment of our existence, is:  I am life that wills to live, in the midst of life

that wills to live. ...

The essence of the humane spirit is: Preserve life, promote life, help life to achieve its highest destiny.

The essence of Evil is: Destroy life, harm life, hamper the

development of life.